Ramadan: Do you think this is right?

It is indeed wrong to be judgemental, I am a muslim born and raised in tthe US I don't think I am a non believer, Allah created everyone equal and will judge them by their deeds and not by where they live or where they were born. I believe in the quran and the sunnah of prophet muhammad pbuh... everyone has to give account for their own deeds, I am in no place to judge anyone, YES your brother is going astray by having all this hate in him, he clearly is not following the holy book which technically makes him a disbeliever in a way. I think society does this to people because no where in the quran teaches us to hate and backbite....Wasalaam.